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Strong and Independent

Cindy Van Arnam
Strong and Independent

I am a strong and independent woman.  I do not need you.  I do not need you to fix things.  I do not need you to help me.  I do not need you to protect me.  I do not need you to treat me as if I’m a fragile flower.  I am strong.

I want you.  I want you to be there for me and treat me with respect.  I want you to honor me and allow me the space to learn what this life is about.  I want you to be my partner in all things; while still understanding that there are just some things that need to be done alone.  I want you to understand my strength, and my power.  I want you to stand in the middle of the storm.

I am not a fragile being that needs to be treated carefully.  Sometimes I want you to throw me up against the wall and fuck me hard.  Sometimes I want to have a good fight.  Sometimes I want to claw my nails into your skin.  Sometimes I’m going to drop more f-bombs than you could ever think possible.  Sometimes I want to play in the dirt and sometimes I want to get all dressed up and be treated like a princess.

But I’m not a princess.  I am a QUEEN.  And I demand to be treated as such.  I don’t want to be coddled.  I don’t want you to tell me that everything is going to be okay.  I want you to show me the truth.  I want you to bare your soul.  I want the beautiful, but I also want the ugly.

I believe in magic.  I believe in love.  I believe in myself.  I believe that we are here for a reason and I’m bound and determined to figure out what that reason is; whether you’re coming with me or not is up to you.


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