Permission To Be Kinky

Everyone will tell you that confidence is sexy. Knowing what you want is sexy. Knowing exactly what you want is really sexy, and not being afraid to try something new is mega sexy. Exploring your relationship sexually can bring you and your partner closer together. Having open and constant communication before and after sex can give you the room to try new things and see what works and what doesn’t. Going to a sex store together is a great way to see the wide range of products available and look at them together.

Sex is meant to be fun and pleasurable. It should never be boring. There are millions of ways to spice up your sex life but it may require a little research and the ability to be open minded. Kink culture is not meant for people who discriminate or ridicule others for their choices. It is an open and welcoming community and hate is not tolerated.

If you are interested in getting into the kink community then it is important to do your homework. Read up on consent and the dynamics of a “scene.” Research the different types of kink and create a limits list with soft limits (Things you are willing to try once) and hard limits (Things you are not willing to try at all). It is also recommended that you have a safe word to share with your partner if you need him/her to stop. You should also research different kinky clubs in your city. Many major cities have a thriving kink community who are more than welcome to answer questions and show you the ropes (so to speak).

Allow yourself to explore your sexuality and be kinky. Don’t be afraid to step outside your comfort zone (aka your bedroom) and see what else is out there. You may be surprised what you discover about yourself and the many new and exciting ways of having sexual pleasure.