Communication and Consent

If you love someone it is important to respect him/her. The best way to do this is to communicate what you are feeling and what you want out of the relationship, then accept and make changes together. Many relationships fail because couples refuse to communicate properly. Meaning, you shouldn’t see your partner and say everything is “fine” or “good” all the time. Life isn’t always sunshine and rainbows so talk to your partner and be open. This allows both of you to create an intimacy stronger than just having sex.

You should always be honest when communicating and there should be equal parts listening and discussing. Never judge your partner and be don’t be afraid to express your opinion in a way that isn’t insulting. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion so listen and accept it. It isn’t your job to change someone but to love and accept your partner as he/she is. This allows you to be more comfortable in the sexual part of your relationship because you won’t be afraid to express your fantasies and desires. However it is important to make sure your partner consents to any new sexual endeavours.

Consent is just as important as communicating. Do not pressure or take advantage of anyone. Having a consensual and open communication in a relationship allows you and your partner to feel comfortable and respected. You should never try to persuade or harass your partner to do anything but instead just try to talk to him/her. There is no weakness in being honest in a relationship and expressing yourself.

Strong and healthy relationships involve respect and communication. So be open and be honest and listen to your partner’s needs and wants and explore your relationship together.