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Cindy Van Arnam

Cindy Van Arnam

Cindy is a woman who doesn’t hold anything back. She has learned over the years that telling the truth gets her a lot further than hiding behind any insecurities she might have. She is a spitfire who will tell you exactly what she’s thinking and how she’s feeling. With her experience in dealing with men she has learned how to teach nice guys some badass qualities. Finally settling down with a good man has taught her that nice guys really can finish first and it’s her mission to show the rest of the nice guys out there that they can do it too. With nothing held back, Cindy will give you the advice and coaching you need to finally get the woman you want and deserve. She navigates the tricky waters of the woman’s psyche and shows you the gates, hands you the keys and kicks you in the ass. There will be no hand holding. There will be no coddling. There will be swearing. In the end, you will be a BADASS nice guy with a beautiful woman (or more) on your arm.
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